5 Signs A Man Is Secretly Comparing You To Other Women Is he present with you — or is he quietly measuring you against someone else? If you’ve noticed subtle shifts and are looking for signs he’s comparing you to other women, this video brings the clarity you need. It’s rarely overt. A man who starts emotionally distancing himself won’t always say it outright — but you’ll feel it. The compliments start to lose their spark. His attention seems elsewhere. Suddenly, you’re answering oddly specific